i came across this website..! and i think it would be useful to many who ponders when their guy behaves this way !
he aparently liked me we texted everyday and on ocasion spoke on the phone all of a sudden he just stopped texting calling me or wanting to go out i am so confused what did i do what happened , at this point i just want to know …
This situation is a classic. We literally get asked about this all the time. I can’t give you a concrete answer because no one can ever know what’s going on in someone else’s head. However, it sounds to me like this guy started to get freaked out, maybe things started moving to quickly, maybe he started to feel suffocated, maybe he didn’t feel like texting you every day because that can just get downright annoying.
How you handle his sudden distance is what will make all the difference. In the early stages of a relationship, guys will sometimes do things to test girls. If he backs away and suddenly stops calling and texting like he did, he may be doing it to see how you react. If you freak out and start demanding to know why he stopped texting and where he’s been, then he’ll know he has you and that he no longer needs to try to win you over. Or he may just see you as needy and decide he doesn’t want to deal.
If you play it cool and act like you don’t even notice, then he’ll wonder why you aren’t reacting like any other girl would. Then he’ll be intrigued and will know he has to work a little harder to keep your attention.
In the beginning of a relationship, the guy is trying to win you over. That’s why he’s texting all the time and doing these sweet things. As soon as he feels he has you, what’s the point in putting in the effort. Guys don’t like texting every day, it can be a huge nuisance. However, they’ll get over it and deal when they’re trying to woo a girl. Once they feel she’s been sufficiently wooed, then he’ll try to test her to see how far things can go and how much he can get away with (it’s only natural).
If he can go days without calling or texting and you’re still there and ready to see him when he’s available then where’s his motivation to text you every day? If, however, he starts texting less and less and then you become less and less available to him, he’ll know he has to step up his game!
Hope all that makes sense!
credits to Sabrina Alexis