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Love..! Expectations !

i came across this website..! and i think it would be useful to many who ponders when their guy behaves this way ! 

 

he aparently liked me we texted everyday and on ocasion spoke on the phone all of a sudden he just stopped texting calling me or wanting to go out i am so confused what did i do what happened , at this point i just want to know …

 

 

This situation is a classic. We literally get asked about this all the time. I can’t give you a concrete answer because no one can ever know what’s going on in someone else’s head. However, it sounds to me like this guy started to get freaked out, maybe things started moving to quickly, maybe he started to feel suffocated, maybe he didn’t feel like texting you every day because that can just get downright annoying. 

How you handle his sudden distance is what will make all the difference. In the early stages of a relationship, guys will sometimes do things to test girls. If he backs away and suddenly stops calling and texting like he did, he may be doing it to see how you react. If you freak out and start demanding to know why he stopped texting and where he’s been, then he’ll know he has you and that he no longer needs to try to win you over. Or he may just see you as needy and decide he doesn’t want to deal. 

If you play it cool and act like you don’t even notice, then he’ll wonder why you aren’t reacting like any other girl would. Then he’ll be intrigued and will know he has to work a little harder to keep your attention. 

In the beginning of a relationship, the guy is trying to win you over. That’s why he’s texting all the time and doing these sweet things. As soon as he feels he has you, what’s the point in putting in the effort. Guys don’t like texting every day, it can be a huge nuisance. However, they’ll get over it and deal when they’re trying to woo a girl. Once they feel she’s been sufficiently wooed, then he’ll try to test her to see how far things can go and how much he can get away with (it’s only natural). 

If he can go days without calling or texting and you’re still there and ready to see him when he’s available then where’s his motivation to text you every day? If, however, he starts texting less and less and then you become less and less available to him, he’ll know he has to step up his game!

Hope all that makes sense!

 

 

credits to Sabrina Alexis

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Medicine for my wounds :) Mickey !

Be #Bold … never lose like a Coward… ~~~
I tell you … Change your attitude first…
Now think that , this is the worst loss in ur life, so from now onwards you can face anythng in Life, without any fear of losing ……
See to that , you are THE BEST in every thing you do ….people must cme at the back of you , YOu dnt go back of them …..
Live life like a KING ,,,
Cuttting your hand , would cost you sme hospital charges, and sme blood …. avladha …. nothing big di :P :D :) ….
Eruma Eruma …. Do something , only if it has sme good result , else why waste time in it ? …..
Ada po pa…. Vaazhkaiya Vaazhanum(live life)… nalla Vaazhanum nu(enjoy it), yosi(think) …. looking at you ,Others must wonder …. Life eh
ivlo sandhoshama vaazha mudiyumaa nu ….( if you could live this happily)
I guess you can feel , what i am saying ….. Start Living your Life, lively..  :) …
take care dear :) ….
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My Mickey Friend :)

i dnt knw why … i just always wanted you to smile, cuz in the beginning when we started talking you where almost sad , nd crying fr everythng , only thiong that went in ma mind is
to make you smile
so i did it every day …. i forget being frank at times wheneva i talk to u.
only one thing gets a priority when i talk to u ..
to make u smile
so it automatically went away..
that being frank!

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The phone call on NOV.17.2012…. changed my life….. i woke up to this call in the morning at 10:45….. i never expected that he would call…. i thought everything was over, from the last time i talked with him, i still ignored everything about him, his songs, his memories, his voice, but i never knew the day i talk to him was closer than i thought. He was still my unfinished dream, he is still the sweetness in my life…

Many times in life, i lost many people because i never told them how much they mean to you, this time i did not want to make the same mistake again… and i broke the promise i held onto for so long, because i did not want to lose him….

I told him, i like you…………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….

i was so scared when i was saying those words, because i already knew the answer was no, even before confessing my love, i knew his answer, i was prepared for the pain…. i was ready to accept his rejection… before i said those words… i thought weeks before i told him….. the thought i had for years…..  it didnt hurt when i thought of the pain…..

There was silence when i told him…. a silence that broke all my dreams that i weaved for years…. a silence that crushed all my wishes…. :’( He told me never thought of me that way. but something, i kept on hoping…the answer would be different…. i could never lie to him…. i fell in love with him…. and i tried in so many ways to tell him….but he never understood….

he told me to erase all the memories with no traces left behind…. how am i supposed to erase them when i never even planned on forgetting ? how can i ? when all i thought was  a life with him….. his answer were logical….and had a sense of reality….

there was some love holding on…. bcos he told me once tht he would never talk again, and he told me with me its different…! what did this mean ? i dont know :( i dont have any one to share this pain with :(

alone in this world, one more time, facing this pain all on my own….

:’(

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I never lived a life for myself, till now, always looking towards, for others. Is it time to stop doing what I am doing ?I am not happy where I am in life. I always gave so much love, and yet in return in received none back from the one who I yearned so much from. He does not know the dreams I weaved. He does not know the pain I went through each day, just so I can hear his voice, just so I can hear him smile, I didn’t know what was right, what is wrong, all I knew his voice was medication to my wounded scars. I was afraid when I talked with him, that I was going to be attached. I didn’t know that he would mean so much in life. Everytime I close my eyes, I could only think of all the memories I had with you, all the moments I spent with you, on the phone. When pain entered in my world, in 2010…. I lost all the support I had, I lost all the belief I had, I lost the one who I thought was a treasure, I lost my two angels, because of me, what life throws at you, no one knows, the same year in december, I realized something was going wrong…. The same year…. I received a blessing…. The treasure I cherished…. Was lost…. All in one year… so much pain… heartbreak, after another…. I was just 15 back then, how did you think I could have handled it all? He was my dearest brother… yet I didn’t know him so well…. Because I thought he would never leave my life, no matter what happened….. despite all the things I did… despite all the hurt I went through, just to make him smile…. I hurt myself in ways you could never imagine a 15 year old girl would do for a guy who was not even related to her. I regret doing so much, because I never received any respect for the love I showed. When I could not trust anyone else, I went to him for solutions…. I can still never forget the nights I talked to him….. I can never forget the days….. never in my life…. It was a first scar…. I would say time tried to heal the pain, but it failed, because if it did, I would not be thinking about it now. Then it was a sibling I lost trust in, the one who I knew from my birth….. the one who I shared my everything with… was hiding something from me….. and I was hurt in ways no one could ever imagine…. I was ignored…. I was lied to… I was being cheated on…. It seemed like, I was the bad one…. Then new year came with a boon…. A short one, she came in my life… as dearest and darling friend, just like her brother. I have not met her, I have not even talked to her, but I bought her a gift ? why would I ? the money I saved up ? was spent on her ? for what ? I don’t know ? Thanks was all she could say, and she even promised me, she taught me many lessons, she said she would be my side… till the end…. Then one day…. It stopped….. I was devastated…. Then many many small happiness came in, and flew like the wind… I knew, if took them serious, I would be hurt… I still remember the tears I cried, those tears have dried, but the wounds remain so fresh, that it hurts even thinking about it. But I lived with that pain for four years….!!! She stopped talking to me in may end. MAY 26…. 2010….. her birthday was in june… I could not even wish her… I tried calling her so many times…. i still remember the tears I cried for her in NOV, on diwali day…..sitting on my friend apartments sofa….and tears just rolling down in my cheeks……. I didn’t know what to do…. They gave me a restriction….. I could not go past that…. I did not care who stopped me…. I still talked everyday…. But  I remember his words… you stop now, you stop mailing me, you stop talking to me, or I tell your parents…… was it my parents who was your biggest support ? was it my parents who prayed for you ??? was it ??? he never wished me for any of my birthdays… I am 18 now…. And the last time he wished me was when I was 15……. What did he think ? did he forget me?? Or he didn’t care ? but every year… I called him….. I wished him….. ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

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